Ms Caths at it again. This time she brings you the next series from the “Denise Dewhore” set, where things get quite personal! See me prize this slut open & use her pussy hole as my ashtray! CBT at its best, leg spreader bar, restrained hands, 6″ pumps, perfect legs & arse, dressed as my school girl slut, ready to take some brutal torture for being the whore she truly is from Head Mistress Cath. Watch the slut drink from me & clean me up as I use her as my toilet & ashtray!! What a predicament to be in with Ms Cath!
I love nothing more to push the limits of these so called submissive masochist slut slaves & show them who is boss, who rules their life & who can take the abuse that this sadistic bitch, Ms Cath loves dishing out!! Instant horniness springs to mind when I look back at this scene of pics, its perverted, sick & twisted, gloriously gruesome, deliciously depraved, fully sick, hehe, & outrageously out there for many but just a part of life for me Yes Im sick evil & twisted, I like it that way and trust you’ll like what you see!
Feedback welcome.

be good at it peeps,
smokie kisses

Ms Cath ================="*****

slave arrived in the afternoon, excited to pick me up to go to the chalet for the weekend. Bags packed, animals fed, car loaded, & the anticipation rife. What lies ahead for the slave, I can hear his brain ticking over, I couldnt help but giggle under my breath as I knew exactly what he was in for! Ha! We drove up the private road among the over hanging trees, blowing a gale in the wind & heavy rain, we made our way to the Chalet. slave had warmed up the place for my arrival on this chilly winter night, but things were about to get a lot hotter! In no time, slave was naked, collared, & ready to serve, just how I love him to be, on his knees by my side like a good little puppy dog.
All my needs were met as usual, fresh ashtray, my cigarettes lined up & ready, lighters, a glass of Chardonnay, my fluffy slippers, & the implements I use to torture the poor excuse for a human being, a toy, a plaything, an object to use & abuse for my sadistic pleasures, he’s my dog, my money pig, my servant, my toilet slave, my personal whore, which I love turning into my lesbian slut lover, who wears pretty panties and stockings! I love bending the bitch over, making her scream like a banshee, but thats another story! Let me just say I have one of the most sick & twisted, dirty minded, depraved, disgusting, disturbed, filthiest, most perverted, kinkiest, sado-masochist slut on the block, & no-one has or will ever come close to this amazing species of a man, the mold was broken the day this silverback was born!
Anyway back to the story…….
Im a ruthless Mistress, I dont hold back on my slave, ashtoi, he is at the ready whenever I need or want anything, at my mercy if & when I feel like stubbing out my More on his meat, he’ll present no questions asked he knows his Mistress well. If I need to Id like a spa slave, ‘yes Mistress, I took the liberty of running you one while I came to collect you so it would be ready for you when you arrived Ma’am.’ What a slave! And there it was, drawn, perfect temperature, bubbles, radox, candles, clean ashtray, cigarettes & lighter, a fresh fluffy towel, & a freshly topped up Charddy all there waiting for me, I am spoiled by my boy and I adore him for taking the time to prepare ahead, knowing exactly what I like and need, then making it happen, thats impressive! But I expect nothing less from my slave, he fits the bill well and never ceases to keep on amazing me with his dedication, loyalty and submission. I love my man, lover, slave & best buddy, I think I might keep him! lol.
I could go on about this ’story’, but as this is a public blog, I have to watch what I type as my kind of play is taboo, heavy pain and torture doesnt sit well with most so Ill save it for the patrons of my website to read about what took place when I got out of the spa! Talk about nasty, brutal and evil, and not for the faint-hearted! I know my kinky bunch of patrons will feast on the perversity of it all, as well as all the other great stuff they get to see as a member of my wesbite.
Speaking of which, have you seen my latest cigar clip yet? Its on youtube, myspace, fetlife & facebook! It goes for 3 mins to wet many an apetite, yet the full version can be seen(15mins worth) upon becoming a Patron of my kinky kitchen, which is only $18 per month! Clips like mine sell for that, so why not join me and see for yourself whats on the menu, you will be spoiled for choice & your hunger fed well on the delicious tasty morsels youll only find in Ms Caths Kitchen! Including 1000’s of top shelf erotica pictures, many clips doing what I do best, wicked stories to read, & poems of fetish and seduction, also my blog & the chance to get to chat to me live online using Skype (MsCathOz), or yahoo (Mistress_Evil_2000), youre bound to catch me somewhere on either for a quick hi, but please dont waste my time. Its precious & lifes short. Until my next entry, be well, safe, sexy and naughty! Seeyou somewhere, sometime……

kinky kisses & smokie slaps, Ms Cath )——–**~~~~~

What I think makes for a dominant that I would respect is very different to many others’ opinions I am sure. I believe a good dominant insists that their subs take responsibility for themselves in almost all things. When we have no-one to blame but ourselves for the state of our being, then we truly become empowered to be who we really want to be and learn to trust our own decisions.To me being dominant is just a part of my characteristic and not a role I play (but I do love to role play!!) *evil grin* It is who I am and how I approach life in general. That does not mean I am a control freak and have to have my
own way in all things, or believe I am wiser than my subs, just by virtue of being their Mistress. Someone who can wear the title of Mistress or Master and not allow it to go to their head and think they are all wise and powerful, a Dominant who can be flexible with each and every submissive and not have a one rule for all. Each person has different needs, life circumstances and individual personal values should change the way a D/s relationship is developed, not some egotistical set of rules that has nothing to do with developing D/s but everything to do with just wanting to be an unchallenged, unexciting, unthinking egomaniac, and yes they are out there. So what makes a good Master/Mistress Dom/me is the one who will rock your boat and meet your needs, whatever they may be? There is no right answer, except what is right for you.
I found myself reading the latest article from Jack Rinella, a very well respected Leather Master who is well published, well read and respected by thousands throughout the world of BDSM. Its a bit of a long read but well worth it. See what he has to say On Being Dominant below. This man rocks!!

Issue number 15
Friday, March 21, 2008

On Being Dominant
By Jack Rinella

On preparing to speak in Springfield, MO this weekend I posted a
request for questions to their newsgroup and a reader submitted a
question
about “What advice would you give someone who is becoming a Dom.”

Well there’s a mouthful and not an easily answered question, but I’ll
try.

Before I do, though, I’d like to make note of my writing style. You
will see that I compound this essay by my unwillingness to call someone a
dominant or a submissive. These words are adjectives, not nouns, and I
refuse to use them wrongly. Having a dominant personality does not make
someone dominant. Being on the dominant side of a relationship doesn’t
necessarily give someone the right to insist on the title of “Dom” or
“Domme.”

If you look at my family tree there are one or two “Don Battaglia”
ancestors. Don and Donna are titles bestowed by Kings and Lords and our
corruption of them into Dom makes no sense to me. But that is my minority
opinion. Another minority opinion that I have, based on four years of
struggle at the hands of teachers of French, is that Domme has no accent
mark on the “e” and so the “e” is silent. Thank you very much. I sure
can be picky, can’t I? I guess it’s because of my dominant but
non-aggressive personality.

For starters I began thinking about myself and what kind of qualities I
thought I had which made me a dominant player: Extroverted but not
aggressive, Controlling but not overbearing, Decisive but not impetuous,
Consistent, Confident but not cocky about it, Honest and open,
Persuasive, Selfish but caring, Responsible, Having a strong sense of
self, Able
to articulate that sense of self, and Respectful of others.

What is most notable about this list is that many of the
characteristics can be said to apply to a submissive personality as
well as to a
dominant one. As usual, a discussion about kinky folks is fundamentally a
discussion about human beings. Too often we disregard this very real
fact and think that as soon as we put on fetish clothing we cease to be
human. Simply put, the manners that your kindergarten teacher tried to
teach you apply even when you are playing in the dungeon.

So I’m extroverted but not aggressive. I would be loathe to say that
introverts can’t be dominant, but there is an element of being pro-active
and out-going that seems to be necessary, since domination in this
context is as much leadership as anything else. I necessitates some
amount
of directive-ness. I qualify this trait with “but not aggressive.” I
do so because aggressiveness can portray the idea of violence, trespass,
and disregard of the wishes and consent of others and hence is not
appropriate as a characteristic of a healthy dominant personality.

You see, what I am alluding to here is that the appearance of being
dominant is not the same as being dominant, at least not when applied to
the context of what it is that we do. That’s why one of the
characteristics that I listed was “Respectful of others.” We all
share the same
human condition and therefore we are deserving of the same respect
that we
ourselves desire.

Now the experienced dominant participant knows that respect comes in
many shades and hues. Additionally the interactions between two
consenting adults is highly dependent upon the type of relationship
that the two
have negotiated. What this means in practice is that the way a M/s
couple relate to one another is entirely different than how they might be
expected to relate to everyone else. As Patrick says “I’m Jack
Rinella’s slave, not anyone else’s.” That’s why I eschew the title
Dom and
don’t insist on being called Master Jack or Master Rinella. At
present I am
only master to Patrick and so I am only dominant in my relationship to
him, not to anyone else.

Of course I get lots of deference, probably because of my gray hair and
the remarkable size of my dick, but I neither expect it nor require
it. I hope, though, that I am appreciative of it when I receive it. One
of the characteristics that ought to be noted in the best masters is
that they understand the need for humility. Being masterful is different
than being prideful.

I once wrote a column (it’s on my website) called “Confidence Makes a
Master.” It’s also included in my book, “The Compleat Slave.” No one
wants to own a slave who lacks confidence either, but since direction,
control, and decision-making are all part and parcel of mastery, then it
stands to reason that the master must be confident enough in him or
herself and in his or her relationship to the slave that he or she
(doesn’t
this PC gender stuff make for difficult sentences?) can direct,
control, and decide.

That leads to another thought. The primary control that the dominant
partner must exercise is over him or herself. If you can’t control your
own actions and desires you will never be able to control those of
another. Control of another creates the necessity of being
responsible. The
gift that a submissive partner bestows is primarily that of surrender
to the will of the other. The only thing that makes such a gift
reasonable, responsible (on the part of the submissive partner) and
tenable is
that the gift comes with the requirement that the dominant partner
accepts responsibility for the safety, care, and well-being of his or her
property.

I guess this is as good a place as any to make note of the wide
variations in the expression of a dominant personality. There is,
though we
sometimes fail to recognize it, a difference between a master/slave (M/s)
relationship and one that is dominant/submissive (D/s). Though they
are near one another on the continuum of relationships, they are probably
most easily differentiated by the intensity of control that is given.

They vary, then, by degrees defined by how much time is spent together,
by what one partner surrenders or retains, and by the necessities of
career, family, and health. Examples include the fact that a long
distance relationship mitigates the possibility of more intense
control being
exerted, as does the fact of a submissive partner being at work,
having children in the home, or being of ill-health.

Additionally partners may agree to leave some aspects of a relationship
out of the boundaries of control. For instance, finances may not be
surrendered to the dominant partner. In fact it could be that the
submissive partner not only retains control over his or her own
finances but
might be in charge of the master’s banking accounts as well, though this
would be more of a service than exercising true control. I, for one,
would love to have a slave pay my bills for me.

Lastly, what this boils down to is that the successfully dominant
partner accepts his or her domination of other as healthy, empowering
to all
in the relationship, consensual, and morally good. It boils down to
self-acceptance of one’s personality and therefore the ability to live it
authentically.

I think of this almost every night. Dinner is over and my mother taught
me to help clear the table. Instead I get up, say thank you and do
whatever I damn well please, leaving an after-dinner mess for Patrick to
clean up. Doing so is simply part and parcel of my standing with him. I
am master of the home and therefore act as such. Leaving him to do the
dishes is one of the ways I exercise control. He agrees with and enjoys
that I do so. It is as simple as that and for me to do otherwise, in
my home, would erode and eventually destroy our relationship.

When I’m in your home, I’ll act differently, unless of course you want
to be my slave too.

Have a great week. You can leave me email at mrjackr@leathermail.com or
visit my website at
http://leatherviews.c.topica.com/maakBRKabFSUubn9Zx6b/ where you can
subscribe to this column and receive it weekly. Copyright 2008 by Jack
Rinella, all rights reserved.

There are many people who would like to see the BDSM alternative lifestyle accepted in society. But just like anything else that is different, this is something that a lot of people have a hard time grasping. When it comes down to it, there are many myths surrounding the BDSM alternative lifestyle that make people want to avoid it. But with that being said, when properly educated most people will agree that the BDSM alternative lifestyle is not that bad.
First and foremost, it is important to know that a BDSM alternative lifestyle is something that a person voluntarily takes on. If they are interested in living like this it should be up to them. If society could somehow see past the negative stereotypes that are associated with BDSM alternative lifestyle it would be much easier to achieve a higher level of acceptance.
While most people think that a BDSM alternative lifestyle is nothing more than physical abuse, nothing could be further from the truth. The fact of the matter is that abuse is not common with a BDSM alternative lifestyle. This is only the case in extraordinary situations. And remember, abuse is common in other lifestyles as well such as living in a bad marriage.
It is difficult to say if the BDSM alternative lifestyle will ever be accepted in society. Some people are fine with this as of now, but of course, there are many others who feel that it is not a good idea. The only way that society will ever become comfortable with the BDSM alternative lifestyle is if the myths are put to rest. Hopefully as more and more information is made available, society as a whole will begin to catch on.

Im wanting a m/f cleaner, maid, sissy slut maid, submissive or even a slave for the following duties in my home :-

* Leather & Latex Cleaning (fetish wear/ boots/ shoes/ floggers/ whips)

* Bathroom (shower/ bath/ basin/ toilet/ floors/ mirrors)

* Kitchen (washing up/ drying/ mopping/ cupboard doors/benches)

* Lounge/Dining (dusting/ vacuuming/ polishing)

* Bedroom (dusting/ polishing/ mirrors/ folding/ make bed up)

* Outdoors (weeding/ raking/ windows/ sweeping/ garbage out)

IF you are keen to provide your service for the above duties, contact me privately at Mistress@MsCathsKinkyKitchen.com

Only genuine individuals, need apply.

If youre a non smoker, do not like the smell, or cant handle working in it, dont apply.

Thanks

Ms Cath ======*~~~~